Finding the balance between self-development and sustaining a marriage with a partner who refuses to work on themselves.

Loading player...
Do you have a spouse or partner who refuses to develop themselves, won’t listen to your advice, or continues to make poor decisions? As you know, it can be an incredibly frustrating – and sometimes worrisome – experience.

When this happens, we are often faced with the difficult decision on whether to leave or just go of our desire for control and learn to accept our partner as she or he is. Counselling psychologist, Nthabiseng Ramothwala joins us for this conversation.
4 May 2022 11AM English South Africa Education · Careers

Other recent episodes

SALGA heads to court over AARTO rollout

A legal showdown is brewing over the next phase of the AARTO Act, with SALGA asking the courts to stop its implementation, warning it could place a crippling financial burden on municipalities. Phemelo spoke to SALGA Public Transport and Roads Working Group Chairperson, Cllr Sebang Motlhabi, about why local government…
29 Jun 2PM 30 min

US funding cuts leave transgender healthcare in crisis

Deep cuts to US-funded HIV programmes are leaving many transgender South Africans struggling to access life-saving healthcare, including hormone treatment and HIV prevention services. Phemelo spoke to health and science journalist who writes for Bhekisisa Centre for Health Journalism's Ida Jooste about the growing impact of the funding crisis and…
29 Jun 2PM 11 min

Zuma, Mbeki challenge Judge Khampepe's TRC inquiry role

The Constitutional Court is hearing a high-profile bid by former presidents Jacob Zuma and Thabo Mbeki to remove Judge Sisi Khampepe from chairing the TRC cases inquiry over allegations of bias. Phemelo unpacked the legal arguments and what's at stake with legal expert Bophelo Seleke.
29 Jun 2PM 7 min

South Africa on edge ahead of June 30 anti-immigration protests

South Africa is on high alert ahead of planned anti-illegal immigration protests on June 30, with government ramping up security while urging calm. As tensions rise and migrant communities voice fears over safety, Phemelo unpacked what's driving the demonstrations and what authorities are expecting with Kaya News Reporter Karinda Jagmohan.
29 Jun 2PM 8 min

What To Watch: The Invite, The Citizen Vigilante, Moonlight & Misdemeanours

Looking for your next entertainment fix? This week's What to Watch featured reviews of The Invite and The Citizen Vigilante, currently showing in cinemas, as well as Moonlight & Misdemeanours, taking to the stage at the Johannesburg Theatre's Lesedi Theatre this weekend. Entertainment commentator Leroy Marc shared his top picks.
26 Jun 3AM 16 min